Before the age long argument, let me make it clear here that I do not support short time relationship as well. Relationship or courtships that span a period of 3 to 6 months even 9 months may not be enough for courtship. The appropriate period for courtship should not be less than a year and at utmost should not be more than two years because at this time, there is nothing your would be husband or wife want you to know that you will not have known. Most characters come out only after marriage but are hidden throughout your courtship period, both man and woman are guilt of this attitude.
Reasons why long term courtship is not good for woman
- Women don’t have that much time on their side in courtship and should not be held down by unfulfilled promise by men.
- If the courtship could not go according to plan, women suffers the most for it after long term relationship in which, she would have been used and resulting in dumping.
- Staying in long term courtship without actual date and plan for your marriage has other side of the story, find out if you man is not cheating on you.
- A long courtship going nowhere strips a woman of her dignity and self-esteem. Because she is hoping that tomorrow will persuade him to make an honest woman of her, she shoos off other eligible males. Because she thinks he’d propose at the next valentine dinner, she discourages the real Mr Right.
- That your man does not marry you now does not mean you’re not a wife material, he just want to waste your time and beauties thereafter dump you for younger woman. You can’t remain his plaything forever while he enjoys the best of both worlds – Watch out for how to plan your wedding in our next blog. MANNASTORES ADDING VALUES TO YOU!!!!www.manastores.com
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