THE ART OF SEDUCTION

Should there be a special occasion like Valentine’s Day, birthday or anniversary to unleash your inner sexiness and get some? Not really! When you feel the need for some hot, fiery red action, you should be able to just go for it. Here are some tips to get the message across instantly and get him away from the game pad into your bed. Relax: Taking on the role of Cleopatra can
appear intimidating especially for a naturally shy or timid woman. It is important to engage in calming
your nerves with a little pampering (at home, spa or salon); maybe a little alcohol to loosen you up a bit. There are very few things men find hotter than a woman who knows what she wants and can take it!

Groom and prep: Seduction is mostly about your attitude; however, you have to look good too. If this is a plan, take time out to take care of yourself that day. If need be, buy a sexy dress that accentuates your ‘assets’; go and get one. It doesn’t have to be expensive; it just has to look the part. The mantra is ‘confidence is sexy’. When you feel good, it’s much easier to play the role.

Be playful: Why don’t you flirt a little with your man? Remember your days of picking up men as a single woman? It might be time to dust out your flirtatious skills because in seduction, a little flirting is the beginning of wisdom. That’s how you clue him in to the fact that you are interested. You can start by being funny, picking cheesy lines guaranteed to make him laugh and get the
atmosphere more comfortable.

Write dirty:  Even while you’ve garnered the courage to play the role of seducer, not everyone is bold enough to talk dirty. God bless the English language as there are lots of interesting words to express what you want while still sounding ‘innocent’ and sexy! You can leave flirty, suggestive notes ‘lying around’ places he’s sure to find them.

Leave ‘something’ to the imagination:  Sexy doesn’t necessarily mean you have to go naked before you can turn him on.
You’ll be amazed at the power his imagination has on his libido. Take time to do your part via the essentials: the dress, lingerie or you can play the devil and flash him at dinner (even better in a public restaurant); his mind is sure to help get him where
you want him.

Role play:  School girl outfit, play stranger, sexy super-hero. There’s a reason it’s all been done before; it works! You could ask him to pick out a fantasy item he’d love to see you in. Trust me, wearing a French maid outfit while pretending to
clean up after him is sure to get him to notice and act!

Tell him what you want:  A man’s greatest weakness is his ego (ssssshh, it’s a secret!); telling him he’s good at something is definitely going to increase his interest in you. Now all you have to do is tell him what he does to you that you like or
what you would like to do to him. Whisper it softly into his ears as you lean in to kiss him, go ahead and be graphic if you can. He’s going to want to prove you right; it’s a win-win!

Effective use of body language: Be artistic with your seductive powers! A striptease, light sensual brushes with each other, suggestive movements or gestures are sure to grant the desired effect or result. You can go right ahead and be wild with your
fantasies (not too wild unless you both enjoy it); after all, all is fair in love and… in the bedroom.